7 Factors of Negative Parenting

Why Children are Unhappy with Our Parenting Styles

To learn what we should not do as parents we must learn the following 7 factors of negative parenting. Parenting is hard; parenting is challenging. There are imperfections with us, we have little knowledge about parenting styles. Mostly we come to learn things when trauma has passed and we meet the results of what we had been as parents. Firstly, answer the questions:

What do we require as parents for a child’s physical, mental, intellectual, and emotional, social development?

Did you ever ponder upon it?

Did you ever analyze your behavior patterns?

Did you ever think about fostering the emotional and spiritual intelligence of your child?

Your answer might be “Yes” or “No”.

 But I believe that you are surely concerned about your kids’ growth, whatever form or shape your concern is! Whether you have explored it or not, you are connected with the idea of raising them in the best manner!

Parenting is hard; parenting is challenging. There are imperfections with us, we have little knowledge about parenting styles. Mostly we come to learn things when trauma has passed and we meet the results of what we had been as parents.

In this very article I, as an evolutionary anthropologist, would like to share with future parents the practical suggestions and intuitive parenting approach that emphasizes seeing the toddler as a whole person from the foundation. If you are ready to conduct the venerated perception of parenthood and be real, you are going to find everything you need on my blog.

In the first step, we need to learn why children don’t listen to us to make them listen. This might be the result of negative parenting. What is this destructive feature of parenting? Let’s have a discussion about it!

There are 7 factors of negative parenting. There are 7 Reasons “Why Children Don’t Listen to Their Parents.” Do parents often think what are the factors which make their children hard to listen to you?

Ethical issues

There is a difference or contradiction in what we say and what we do. We mostly talk in frustration and anger. We manipulate situations. Our moral weaknesses are exposed. The parents who are thus exposed cannot get obeisance. Children do not follow if they don’t trust their parents. A child observes you constantly. Do care that he is observing more than he is not listening to you. If you are morally weak, you cannot become your child’s ideal superhero. You cannot have the desired respect.

Psychological issues

It is very hard for some parents to stay cool and calm. They cannot speak softly; they can’t stay relaxed. Most of the children did not see their parents smiling. They found them with undue arrogance and irrational strictness. They don’t seem to be happy. They are not grateful. They always observe a complaining attitude. They don’t seem to be contented. To express gratefulness is different from being in the actual state of gratitude. Their body language shows a complaining demeanor. A sense of gratitude shows psychological health. He seems to be contented; he maintains his state of happiness. Contentment is reflected in his body language. He is not grateful because he doesn’t seem to be happy. He observes serious sort of psychological issues.

Linguistic ability

Parents have weak linguistic ability. Your first language should be marvelous. Language skill leaves a great impact. Our meaning does not become clear when we speak because of the wrong choice of words. There should be a careful choice of words. We are usually very reckless in our choice of words. A right comment delivered in a wrong manner with the wrong choice of words destroys the whole impact. Words don’t match our intentions. We are unable to convey our real meaning due to linguistic inability.

Intellectual ability

The psychological need of a child is to consider his parents the most prudent and ideal personalities till their adulthood. If later, he finds his parents following the trends in society rather than following their knowledge and wisdom. Greater decisions are being taken due to social trends. Many parents lack wisdom and prudence. Children get disappointed with this aspect. Knowledge doesn’t mean a degree but the desire to probe and learn which is not dependent upon any degree. Such parents are deprived of the close connection of their children.

Linguistic competence of a child

A child whose language is not developed, can also not listen to his parents. It becomes hard for him to communicate. It is very important to enhance his first language. He must have developed the ability to understand his first language fully. Being bilingual or trilingual mars the ability to express real emotion. They cannot express their true feelings. Their thought process did not develop due to their inability in their first language.

A frustrated child

If a child is entangled and is a victim of confused thoughts, he will not listen to you.

Weak parental filial relationship

A child wants intellectually appealing content. Our society produces segregated elements.

Must read: https://ethicsedu.com/parenting-challenges-of-the-21st-century/